life

  • The war within

    Today was one of those days I wasn’t cooperating with myself.  It’s like my body said, not today Rukkie. Take some rest. It unleashed everything it thought would make me feel better. To rest and hibernate.  But it’s Wednesday, meaning… Continue reading

    The war within
  • “Akpabio!” “I can see you. Please open the door! The Bear is coming. It’s coming for me!” I cried.  “Akpabio! Akpabio!” What’s going on? I can see Akpabio. It was dark but the moonlight reflected on my beautiful black skin.… Continue reading

    Fò
  • The uninvited invitee

    Today was so funny. Not “hehe haha” funny but still funny. You know why? Because last week, I chose my blog topic, but work has been so hectic that I remembered everything else and I mean everything else asides from… Continue reading

    The uninvited invitee
  • Truth count

    You know, we go through different stages in life. There’s the high, the low, the spiky edge, the in between, and the whatever-it-is you want to call your current stage. When I look at my current stage in life, all… Continue reading

    Truth count
  • When you see and do not see

    Do you feel as though there are things you see but also do not see? Well, I do, and I think we all do.  Let me explain.  Every morning it takes me about twelve minutes to walk from the subway… Continue reading

    When you see and do not see
  • Self-reintroduction

    This year, I did something I never did before. I set a cutoff date to reintroduce myself. Not for anyone but for me.  For so long, I conditioned my identity on an ideal, places, expectations and people who I thought… Continue reading

    Self-reintroduction
  • Eat your cake

    Just like every other week, I waited till the eleventh hour to write my blog post today. I knew this was going to happen. I mean it always happens. No matter how much I prepare beforehand, I have come to… Continue reading

    Eat your cake
  • The messy middle

    “Aijay. Aisha. Yoland?” “Hello?” Are you guys there? Hmmm…. That’s odd. Aijay, Aisha, and Yoland were just behind me. One moment, we were talking; now…I can’t see them. Or hear them. What’s going on?  Perhaps, I need to return and… Continue reading

    The messy middle
  • You Can Never Be One of Them

    Have you ever seen Dose of Society’s content on social media? If you haven’t, Dose of Society is an account where the interviewers ask strangers on the street raw, vulnerable questions like: “What did your last heartbreak teach you?” “Your… Continue reading

    You Can Never Be One of Them
  • The Mistaken Daughter of Seven Seven

    If there was a Guinness World Record for the largest number of fights, my mom and I would win it every single time! We’ve seen and fought it all. The good fight, the ugly fight, the bad fight, the funny… Continue reading

    The Mistaken Daughter of Seven Seven